The Moment You Find Your Voice
I’d seen him speak many times before.
It was never anything to write home about.
What was about to happen—no one would ever forget.
Backstage was hushed, the low hum of production comms bleeding through the curtain.
He stood perfectly still, hands clasped behind his back, posture straight as a metronome.
An Indian-born CEO of one of the largest mortgage companies in the country—brilliant, disciplined, exacting.
Every talk he gave was orchestrated down to the comma.
On stage, his notes waited for him on the DSM—the down-stage monitor that fed him every word, every number.
He would deliver them as written: steady voice, precise timing, no deviations.
Safe.
His communications team stood nearby, eyes fixed on him.
They were nervous. They never took chances with the boss.
We made small talk as the audience filtered in.
“How have you been?” I asked.
“Good,” he said without looking up.
“Are you still thinking of stepping away?”
“I think I may stay two, maybe three more quarters.”
That’s how clinical he was—he measured his life in financial quarters. It told me everything I needed to know about the man.
“When was the first time you became a CEO?” I asked.
He looked over, faint smile. “Funny you mention that. Pretty crazy story.”
He told it like a ledger entry, even and precise.
It was 2008—the morning Lehman Brothers collapsed. His first day as CEO.
The cab.
The driver.
The keys tossed onto the seat.
“The markets are gone,” the driver had said. “You’ll end up with my house anyway.”
He continued in the same even tone: how he’d carried those keys into his first board meeting and placed them on the table.
How he’d told the directors, “We have a lot of work to do. I intend to make sure that driver keeps his home.”
When he finished, the story just hung there—quiet, unembellished, powerful.
He straightened his jacket, ready to move past it.
“Tell that,” I said.
He turned slightly. “Tell… that?”
“Yes,” I said. “Exactly that. It’ll humanize you.”
He paused—just long enough to imply,Okay, I’ll try this, but it’s on you if it fails.
I had nothing to lose, so I didn’t hesitate.
“You might just find your voice.”
He studied me for a beat, then nodded once, tucked the notes under his arm, and walked toward the stage.
He stood at center stage, framed in light, the DSM glowing at his feet like a teleprompter to safety.
For a heartbeat, he was the same man I’d seen a dozen times before—measured, composed, distant.
And then he began.
At first, his voice was steady, deliberate, following the words that scrolled across the monitor.
But somewhere between the second and third sentence, something shifted.
You could see it in his eyes—somethinglit up inside him.
He was speaking from experience now, not from slides or scripts.
The DSM became an unnecessary distraction, a relic of the person he used to be.
He glanced at it once more, then looked away—discarding it as someone might an empty beer can.
And then, the magic happened.
The crowd sat rapt in his tale.
Every person in that room remembered exactly where they were that day in 2008.
For a moment, every one of them wasthe CEO—carrying the weight of decisions that might save or break lives.
His voice grew steady, fuller, charged with something new: conviction.
Not performance, not polish—truth.
The kind of truth that makes a room go quiet.
The comms team watched from the wings, frozen.
They’d spent weeks scripting him to sound human.
And here he was—finallybeingone.
When he concluded, the crowd burst into applause.
It wasn’t polite applause—it wasearned.
The kind that rises like a wave and keeps going.
Backstage, his team was waiting—smiles wide, eyes bright.
They slapped him on the back, congratulating him, half in disbelief, half in pride.
The man who never took chances had just taken the biggest one of all—and it worked.
He looked over at me, the faintest hint of a grin.
He didn’t need to say a word.
His eyes said,Thank you.
I smiled back. “Nothing to it.”
And that’s the truth.
Everyone can do this.
You don’t need perfect slides or polished delivery.
You just have to speak from the heart.
If you’re ready to help your team find their voice,
let’s start the conversation.
